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  • How to Beat Writer’s Block: 5 Ways to Face the Blank Page

    How to Beat Writer’s Block: 5 Ways to Face the Blank Page

    Just as an artist wouldn’t be able to rework a blank canvas, a writer cannot edit a blank page. Making mistakes is part of the process; don’t smother your creativity out of fear and doubt.

    Everyone has ebbs and flows in their creativity. Just as bamboo is strong but bends and sways in the breeze, be flexible in your approach to writing, maintaining an awareness of where you are going and the flexibility of thought to follow wherever your creative process takes you, unencumbered by resistance or doubt.

    “The one thing that you have that nobody else has is you. Your voice, your mind, your story, your vision. So write and draw and build and play and dance and live as only you can,” author Neil Gaiman told The Guardian.

    If you struggle to overcome a fear of the blank page, take a deep breath and try one of these techniques.

    1. Take action

    For many, the blank page can be intimidating and overwhelming. Though just as when you worried about a monster in your closet as a child, to make the monster disappear, all you need to do is open the door.

    Similarly, “open the door” to your creativity by starting to write. The trick — as with honing every skill — is to practice.

    Don’t just plan to write — write. It is only by writing, not dreaming about it, that we develop our own style,” author PD James said, when asked for her favourite writing tips by Guardian Books.

    You wouldn’t trust a heart surgeon who has read books on how to operate, but never actually picked up a scalpel. Reading about writing craft is wonderful, but you also need to write — ideally, every day, even if it’s just for five minutes.

    [bctt tweet=”Reading about writing craft is wonderful, but you also need to write, says @WriterJoMalby“]

    “[The] Resistance knows that the longer we noodle around ‘getting ready,’ the more time and opportunity we’ll have to sabotage ourselves. Resistance loves it when we hesitate, when we over-prepare. The answer: plunge in,” author Steven Pressfield told Krista Stevens in this interview.

    2. Stick with the process

    Be prepared to tolerate the anxiety that comes with not being able to write as well as you’d like, and push through it. Suspending judgment when you’re writing frequently leads to unexpected creative gems.

    “That freedom opens you to the surprising stuff you never saw coming; stuff that makes you smile as you sit there in the coffee shop, your mug of joe cooling because you’ve forgotten to take a sip in 15 solid minutes,” says author and Contributing Editor at Writer’s Digest, Elizabeth Sims.

    “When beginning a writing session, new authors often feel that they must jump off to an excellent start, when all they really need is to start.”

    3. Be willing to write badly

    When we allow ourselves to let go of any preconceptions of what our writing should be, we loosen the creative faucet. Let go of your inner red pen and leave the editing until later.

    [Be] willing to write really badly. It won’t hurt you to do that. I think there is this fear of writing badly. Forget it! Let it float away and the good stuff follows,” says novelist Jennifer Egan in an interview with The Days of Yore.

    “The bad beginning is just something to build on. It’s no big deal. You have to give yourself permission to do that because you can’t expect to write regularly and always write well. That’s when people get into the habit of waiting for the good moments, where I think writer’s block comes from. Maybe good writing isn’t happening, but let some bad writing happen …

    “When I was writing “The Keep,” my writing was so terrible. My working title for that first draft was, A Short Bad Novel. I thought: “How can I disappoint?”

    4. Use freewriting to kickstart your creativity

    Many authors advocate freewriting as a wonderful way of coercing your creativity out of its shell — whether you believe in the idea of a writing muse or not.

    “I have forced myself to begin writing when I’ve been utterly exhausted, when I’ve felt my soul as thin as a playing card, when nothing has seemed worth enduring for another five minutes … and somehow the activity of writing changes everything,” author Joyce Carol Oates told The Paris Review in 1989.

    Whether you use a writing prompt, an image, or a line of text from a favourite book, set a timer, start writing and don’t stop until your time is up. The trick is to keep moving, even if you’re not sure what to say next.

    5. Remember to enjoy yourself

    When we feel barricaded in by deadlines or pressured by outside forces, it’s easy to forget the beauty, joy and fun of writing.

    “Have humility. Remember you don’t know the limits of your own abilities. Successful or not, if you keep pushing beyond yourself, you will enrich your own life — and maybe even please a few strangers,” AL Kennedy told The Guardian.

    Celebrate each writing accomplishment, whether it’s as large as finishing your first draft of a novel or as small as writing the first sentence. The more you enjoy your work, the easier it becomes to write the next sentence and tackle the next writing goal.

    How do you deal with blocked creativity and fear of the blank page?

  • How to Write Better: 7 Simple Ways to Declutter Your Writing

    How to Write Better: 7 Simple Ways to Declutter Your Writing

    You know that feeling when you open up your closet and it’s so stuffed with clothes you don’t wear that you can’t find the ones you really like?

    Or maybe your desk is piled with papers that need filing, and you waste all kinds of time looking for that one you need? Clutter adds stress and sucks up valuable time.

    The same situation applies to writing. Unnecessary words and redundancies in a page or paragraph obscure its core meaning and interrupt its flow. The essence of your message is buried under all those excess words.

    Once you’ve written the first draft of your novel or short story, it’s time to go back and look for cluttered sentences and paragraphs.

    Ferret out words that don’t add to the meaning or imagery and are just hampering the fluid flow of ideas. Look for instances of overwriting or beating a point to death. Say it once — or twice, max — then move on. Otherwise you risk annoying your readers.

    Ready to search out the clutter in your story?

    1. Avoid little-word pile-ups and eliminate redundancies

    Reveal the essence of your message by streamlining your words. Instead of “in spite of the fact that,” just say “although.” Instead of “in the vicinity of,” say “near.”

    Replace “in the direction of,” with “to” or “toward.” Instead of “came in contact with,” say “met.” Instead of “during the time that,” say “while.” No need to say “located at” – just say “at.”

    Before:

    On their cross-country trip, they slept each night in the cheap motels located less than a mile’s drive from the interstate.

    After:

    On their cross-country trip, they slept each night in cheap motels just off the interstate.

    Before:

    The car drove slowly through the large complex heading in the direction of a secluded building at the back of the facility. It was located on the shore of the Mississippi River. The vehicle came to a stop next to the entrance to the building.

    After:

    The car drove slowly through the large complex toward a secluded building on the shore of the Mississippi River. It stopped next to the entrance.

    Before:

    He was shooting off his mouth in the bar last night telling everybody that he was going to find the bastard that ratted on him.

    After:

    He was shooting off his mouth in the bar last night about finding the bastard that ratted on him.

    Before:

    He moved his mouse pointer over to the other email that he had received.

    After:

    He clicked on the second email.

    2. Don’t drown your readers in details

    Leave out those tiny details that just serve to distract the reader, who wonders for an instant why they’re there and if they’re significant.

    Before:

    He had arrived at the vending machine and was punching the buttons on its front with an outstretched index finger when a voice from behind him broke him away from his thoughts.

    After:

    He was punching the buttons on the vending machine when a voice behind him broke into his thoughts.

    In the first example, we have way too much detail. What else would he be punching the buttons with besides his finger? We also don’t need to know which finger he’s using or that it’s outstretched, since everybody does it pretty much the same. Minute details like these just clutter up your prose.

    Before:

    An angular snarl stuck to his face, the officer indicated with a hand gesture a door that was behind and off to the right of Jason. He swung his head around to look in the direction the officer was pointing.

    After:

    Snarling, the officer gestured to a door behind Jason. He turned to look behind him.

    3. Take out empty, “filler” words

    Words like “it was” and “there were” simply get in the way of your story without adding anything useful.

    Before:

    I headed down a rickety set of wooden steps to the basement. There was a dim light ahead in the hallway. To the right there were cardboard boxes stacked high. To the left, there was a closed door with a padlock. Suddenly, I heard muffled sounds. There was someone upstairs.

    After:

    I headed down a rickety set of wooden steps to the dimly lit basement. To the right, cardboard boxes were stacked high. To the left, I saw a closed door with a padlock. Suddenly, I heard muffled sounds. Someone was upstairs.

    I could play around with this some more, but you get the picture.

    4. Take out the word “that” wherever it’s not needed

    Read the sentence out loud, and if it still makes sense without the “that,” remove it. This change smoothes out the sentence so it’s less clunky and flows better.

    Before:

    She said that you thought that it was too expensive and that you wanted to shop around.

    After:

    She said you thought it was too expensive and you wanted to shop around.

    5. Delete words or phrases that unnecessarily reinforce what’s already been said

    Cluttering your sentences with too many unnecessary words can get in the way of clear communication and confuse and subliminally irritate the reader. Go through your manuscript and see where you’ve cluttered up sentences and paragraphs with little words and phrases that aren’t needed and just impede the natural flow of ideas.

    The phrases in italics are redundant here:

    We passed an abandoned house that nobody lived in on a deserted street with no one around. The house was large in size and gray in color.

    At this point in time, the truth is that complaints are increasing in number, but I don’t see that as a problem to be solved.

    6. Don’t tell after you’ve shown

    For example:

    She moped around the house, unable to concentrate on anything. She felt sad.

    He paced nervously around the room, muttering to himself. He was agitated.

    In both instances, the second sentence can and should be deleted.

    7. Condense any long-winded dialogue

    In real life, people don’t usually speak in lengthy, complete sentences or uninterrupted monologues. Read your dialogue out loud to make sure it sounds natural, not like a rehearsed speech.

    [bctt tweet=””Read your dialogue out loud to make sure it sounds natural,” says @JodieRennerEd“]

    Break up any blocks of one person speaking at length by rewriting them in questions and answers or a lively debate, with plenty of tension and attitude. Try using lots of incomplete sentences and one- or two-word answers, or even silences.

    How would your characters actually speak in real life? Think about their personalities and character traits. For example, men, especially blue-collar men, tend to be terser and more to-the-point than women.

    Looking for more ways to declutter your writing? In my editor’s guide to writing compelling stories, Fire up Your Fiction, I offer lots of concrete tips with examples for streamlining your writing for a smoother flow and pacing. Also, check out the post on tightening your copy.

    How do you streamline your writing?

  • 7 More Writing Blogs That Want Your Guest Posts

    7 More Writing Blogs That Want Your Guest Posts

    You’re a great writer. You’re writing excellent posts with nuanced arguments and sharing practical advice and personal experience on your own blog. There’s just one problem: only your sister is reading it.

    Blogging on your own site helps establish your voice and authority, your little corner of the internet. But attracting readers to your blog can be a challenge — where do you find them, and how do you convince them that you’re worth listening to?

    For many bloggers, guest posting is the answer. By sharing your expertise on another blog, you build relationships with other bloggers in your niche and connect with a broader audience — some of whom may be your future readers and customers.

    Danny Iny shared his advice on guest posting back in the early days of TWL, and since the online world changes quickly, we’ve created a new list. Here are seven more blogs to consider pitching when planning your guest posting strategy.

    1. Be a Freelance Blogger

    Created by Sophie Lizard, Be a Freelance Blogger helps writers earn more money by blogging for hire. Many posts focus on finding clients, figuring out how to set your rates and developing your blogging skills. They’re informative, but also entertaining for readers.

    Popular posts include:

    Submitting a guest post to Be a Freelance Blogger is a nine-step process, which sounds intimidating but isn’t actually that complicated. Start by getting to know the blog and its community by reading popular posts and sharing your thoughts in the comments. Brainstorm story ideas, then pitch them to Lauren, BAFB’s Community Manager (lauren@beafreelanceblogger.com). Once she gives you the green light, it’s time to write your first draft!

    For more information on guest posting on BAFB, check out our Guest Blogging Spotlight.

    2. Writer’s Relief

    Founded in 1994, Writer’s Relief helps writers submit their work to literary agents and editors. Their blog offers tips on craft, advice on querying and interviews with successful authors, and they accept guest posts on topics ranging from marketing to conferences to writing inspiration.

    Your submission must be original and unpublished, and should be a maximum of 600 words. Paste it in the body of an email to info@wrelief.com, include your bio and answer this question: “What major thing will readers learn from your article?”

    For more, follow their guidelines and learn from these popular posts:

    3. Writing Forward

    Calling all fiction, poetry and creative nonfiction writers! Writing Forward wants to share your advice on crafting great writing, and they’re open to submissions whether or not you’ve been published elsewhere.

    Popular posts on Writing Forward include:

    There’s no compensation for guest posts, but you’re free to include links to your own blog in your post and bio. Note that commercial or spammy backlinks will not be published.

    Interested? Check out Writing Forward’s guidelines and send a query in the body of your email to founder and editor Melissa Donovan at melissa@writingforward.com.

    4. Live Write Thrive

    Novelist and writing coach C.S. Lakin shares advice on storytelling, writing inspiration and promoting your book. She accepts guest posts related to her “Writing for Life” category and specifically looks for posts that will “encourage, help or instruct writers” to better their craft and share their work.

    Popular guest posts on LWT include:

    Review the guidelines and pitch your ideas through the site’s contact form before writing a post. Note that LWT only runs guest posts once a week and has a long lead time, so you’ll want to get in touch early if you have a specific time frame in mind.

    5. Funds For Writers

    C. Hope Clark runs Funds For Writers, a site dedicated to helping writers earn more money for their work. Each weekly newsletter features a note from Hope, news and opportunities in the writing world, and you guessed it — a guest post. FFW focuses on paying markets, grants, contests, writing jobs, publishers and agents; this is not the place to submit posts about writing craft or character development.

    Guest posts should share your best advice and success stories about building a writing business, breaking into a high-paying niche or unusual ways to earn an income through writing. Recent examples of guest newsletter posts include:

    • Take the Stress Out of Author Marketing
    • Work Smarter 2.0

    Since guest posts are shared in a newsletter, Hope is looking for tight, concise submissions: 600 words, max. Review the guidelines and send your ideas to Hope at hope@fundsforwriters.com.

    6. Writers Helping Writers

    Run by Angela Ackerman and Becca Puglisi, Writers Helping Writers is a resource for writers interested in craft, publishing and marketing. To be accepted, guest posts need to share fresh, practical information that helps writers develop their writing, connect with audiences and improve their promotion strategies.

    Guest posts that have done well include:

    Ready to submit your ideas? Check out their guidelines and submit your suggestions through this form.

    7. Pen & Muse

    Pen & Muse calls itself “a writer’s haven, for writers of all ages and genres.” A team of Muses, led by Kristen Jett and Jolene Haley, shares advice on the world of writing and publishing, including advice on marketing, branding, craft, self-publishing and more.

    Popular posts on the blog include:

    • When You Should and Shouldn’t Use a Pen Name
    • How To Outline Your Novel (Part One)
    • The Secret To Getting An Agent & Getting Your Work Published

    If you’re interested in submitting to Pen & Muse, make sure your work is original and unpublished. For inspiration, consider adding your voice to one of their featured series: How I Plot, What I learned from [Your Most Recently Published Book] or [Title of Your Last Manuscript], My Favorite Editing Trick, or Adding Depth To Your Characters.

    Read the rest of the guidelines, then submit your idea through the contact form on the same page. They’re scheduling up to three months in advance, so be sure to send your idea in early if you have a specific run date in mind.

    For more information on sites that accept guest posts, be sure to follow our series of Guest Blogging Spotlights.

    Now, what are you waiting for? Get pitching!

    Have you submitted a guest post on any of these sites?
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  • Feel Nervous About Submitting Your Writing? Why That’s a Good Thing

    Feel Nervous About Submitting Your Writing? Why That’s a Good Thing

    Does this story sound familiar?

    Whenever I submit something I’ve written for a client, I develop a nervous twitch. I wonder if the client is going to like what I’ve written, or if they’ll think it’s absolute garbage.

    No matter how much time and effort I’ve put into it, how much of my soul I’ve poured out onto the page, I wonder if this will be the time when someone sees me for the charlatan of a writer my self-condemning alter ego insists I am.

    “There, that’s the one,” he says. “That’s the one who’s going to finally tell you just how horrible a writer you really are!”

    This nervousness and anxiety, I’ve come to realize, is actually a good thing, if it’s properly harnessed. You just have to make sure you don’t allow that evil alter ego to speak too loudly, or to convince you that you’re a lousy writer. The trick is in finding the right balance and using your nervousness as motivation.

    Are you really that good?

    If you have no anxiety about your writing at all, you might fail to take constructive criticism seriously — and miss a chance to improve your craft. On the other hand, if you allow yourself to be convinced you cannot write, you might give up altogether.

    The nervousness and anxiety are what propel you to continue honing your skills. If you truly thought you already knew everything there was to know about writing, it wouldn’t be fun or challenging anymore, and there would be little reason to continue doing it. As long as you feel like you have more to learn, though, you will keep working to refine your skills and become an even better writer.

    Anxiety and writer’s block

    This feeling of anxiety isn’t the same as the “writing anxiety” that can block your writing and cripple you as a writer, although these are also often signs that you have a healthy regard for wanting to improve your writing. Writer’s block is a symptom of that same condition, but it isn’t the only symptom.

    No, the kind of anxiety I’m talking about develops after the writing is done. It’s the feeling that the work isn’t quite finished or isn’t quite good enough. You’ve probably felt this from time to time — if not every time you finish a project. The key is to not let this feeling stop you from submitting the work.

    Donald M. Murray describes this issue quite eloquently in his essay “The Maker’s Eye.” He rebukes the illusion that a written work can ever be finished, arguing that “a piece of writing is never finished. It is delivered to a deadline, torn out of the typewriter on demand, sent off with a sense of accomplishment and shame and pride and frustration.”

    Harness that anxiety!

    Use your anxiety to fuel your revisions. Allow yourself to detach from what you’ve written and read it as if you were a stranger to the piece. By becoming your reader, you can look for what the reader wants to find in your writing: information, a call to action, entertainment or a mixture of all of the above.

    Being anxious and slightly nervous about the quality of your work is a good sign that you are passionate about your writing. If you lack passion, you could find your writing career coming to an abrupt end.

    How do I know when enough revision is enough?

    You need to find the healthy balance between revising, rewriting, and realizing that the piece is due and it is time to turn it in. Take to heart all of the praise you’ve received for your writing, and realize that while what you have written may not be perfect, it is high-quality work that possesses all of the soul and heart you can pour into it.

    If you read it as a stranger and find within your words the information, call to action, entertainment, or whatever you wanted the reader to get out of it, hand it in! You’ll likely have another opportunity to revise it after your client or editor has a look and shares her comments.

    Not convinced? Here’s a perfect example: I revised this particular post several times before I took a deep breath and submitted it to the editors, and then revised it once more after their feedback!

    What if the client really does hate my work?

    It’s possible that one day, a client may not like what you’ve written. When that time does come, take it in stride. Not everyone has the same preferences; not everyone likes the same movies, so why would everyone like the same style of writing? Ask for their feedback on how to revise the work: do you need to work on better emulating the client’s voice, strengthening your self-editing skills, or creating clearer calls to action?

    Learn from your mistakes, and move on to make your writing even better.

    [bctt tweet=”Learn from your mistakes, and move on to make your writing even better, says @byrneswritenow”]

    A writer needs to have thick skin and be able to handle constructive criticism without taking it personally. As with any form of art, your skills and abilities should constantly be improving, and you should be able to take constructive feedback and use it to improve your art.

    You’re passionate about your writing — but recognize that with that passion comes some anxiety and nervousness. Just don’t let your nerves rule you — use them to motivate you to strengthen your skills.

    Do you ever feel anxious before submitting client work or pressing “publish” on a blog post? What do you do?

  • How to Turn Your Blog Into a Book (2024 Guide)

    How to Turn Your Blog Into a Book (2024 Guide)

    The idea of writing a whole book can be pretty daunting. Even if you’re a fairly experienced writer, you might think it’s beyond you.

    But if you’ve been blogging for a few months or years, you may have already written enough to fill a book. Turning your blog into a book is an increasingly popular option. (If you’re using WordPress, the Word Stats plugin is a simple way to check your cumulative word count.)

    Creating a book is straightforward and not especially expensive, with e-publishing and print-on-demand technology. Here are three reasons why bloggers do it — and why you might want to give it a try:

    1. Books reach a different audience

    Not everyone reads blogs. Maybe they’re not especially comfortable with technology, or they only have internet access while at work, or they simply prefer to read in other formats.

    And those who do read blogs might never have come across your personal corner of the busy blogosphere.

    Books can reach a different audience — potentially becoming a tool for promoting your blog, or even your writing services.

    2. Books have a certain credibility

    While it’s true that, today, anyone can publish a book (just as anyone can start a blog), books have a certain credibility.

    Being able to tell your audience that you’ve written a book, or including your book in your bio when you’re guest posting or speaking, can give you instant “expert” status in their eyes.

    Of course, if you’re going to look credible, it’s important to have a well-edited and well-produced book … which we’ll be getting to in a moment.

    3. Books give your content a new life

    If your blog’s been running for a while, there’s a good chance that most of your current readers missed out on your early content.

    While your archives, categories and search box can all help them find your earlier writing, you almost certainly have some brilliant posts going unread in your blog’s archives.

    By pulling together your blog content into a book, you can give it new life. Instead of skimming through your latest post in their inbox, your readers can curl up with their ereader or a hardcopy of your book and dig in.

    Is the blog-to-book journey starting to sound like one you want to take?

    I’ve bought quite a few books and ebooks in my time that started life as blog posts, and I’ve also been going through the blog-to-book process with my client and friend Barry Demp. He’s just published his new book The Quotable Coach: Daily Nuggets of Practical Wisdom — a compilation of posts from the past two years of his blog, The Quotable Coach.

    If you feel ready to self-publish, here are the three major steps that we recommend you follow:

    1. Compile and edit past blog posts

    Before your blog can become a book, you need to get all your posts into one place — probably a document on your computer, whether you choose to use Microsoft Word, Scrivener, Google Docs or another tool.

    You’ll need to go through and format your post titles in Heading 2, so that when you convert your document to an ebook, these can become chapter headings.

    You’ll almost certainly also want to do some editing: perhaps updating out-of-date references, fixing typos, or even adding or removing whole paragraphs.

    You may also find that you need to remove some posts. This could be posts that:

    • Were specific to a particular time, such as the 2012 Olympics or your New Year’s Resolutions for 2013.
    • Are much shorter than average — perhaps a post for a special promotion of your book.
    • Don’t match up to your usual standards; we found ourselves deleting several early posts that were written before we’d quite found our stride.

    2. Line up beta readers and reviewers

    However strong your editing skills are, you’ll want to have some extra eyes on your finished book. Ideally, this means hiring a paid editor — but if that’s not affordable, ask friends, family or colleagues to help out.

    These beta readers (like beta testers in the software world) could read just part of your book and let you know about any problems they spot — from typos and missing words to structural issues. Do try to give them as much advance notice as possible, and at least a couple of weeks to get feedback to you.

    Beta readers may well also be willing to review your book (though you’ll probably want to approach other individuals for reviews too). Reviews or testimonials are a hugely important selling tool, especially as you’re publishing your book yourself rather than with a major publisher.

    Again, give reviewers plenty of time, and stay in touch as your launch date approaches. Once your book is online and ready for reviews, send them the link (and brief instructions) so they can easily leave a review.

    3. Get a professional cover design

    If you’re going to invest in just one thing for your book, go for a great cover design. Like it or not, we all judge books by their covers — and if yours screams “amateur,” your book is unlikely to get a second glance.

    We went with 99designs to get a range of different options from many different designers at a great price. You might instead choose to work with an individual designer (especially if they’ve already done some work on, say, your website or logo). You may even be able to barter design for writing with an artistically-minded friend.

    If you really have no option but to create the cover yourself, keep it simple and classy: think “minimalist.” Use large fonts that can be easily read at thumbnail size, and stick with just one key image.

    So … how about it? Have you ever read a book that started life as a blog, and would you turn your blog into a book?

  • How Fear of Failure Keeps Writers From Producing Their Best Work

    How Fear of Failure Keeps Writers From Producing Their Best Work

    Someone, somewhere, will fail today.

    That person might be you.

    In fact, it’s pretty likely that something will go wrong for you today — no day is ever absolutely perfect. Maybe your favorite client doesn’t like the work you delivered. Maybe you said the wrong thing and it cost you a gig. Maybe your latest blog post got negative feedback.

    It happens to the best of us. You completely miss the mark. You fall flat on your face. You get bad results and generally make a mess of things, despite your best intentions.

    You’ve failed. Now what?

    Most freelancers get hung up on what went wrong. They focus on the slip-up, analyze the situation, and dissect every angle, feeling upset and discouraged. They often head over to their favorite freelancer hangout, where like-minded freelancers living pretty much the same sort of life jointly lament about the situation and hash over what went wrong.

    That’s what most freelancers do — and it means they’re lying to themselves. Worse, they’re holding their businesses back.

    The 3 lies that kill your freelance writer success

    Whether you’re just starting out in your career or have already become a wild success, you will fail. You’ll make mistakes, you’ll screw up and you’ll suffer setbacks. This isn’t discouragement; it’s just the way life works.

    What you tell yourself about these failures determines how you move on, and whether you move forward. You can be honest, truthful and proactive, or you can lie to yourself about what it all means.

    What are these lies that freelance writers tell themselves?

    1. It’s personal. This screw-up? It’s all about you — all your fault. You didn’t do the “right” thing. You’re not good enough. The client doesn’t like you.

    2. It’s permanent. You worked hard, tried your best, and blew it. That project? A total failure. It’s done. Over. It’s the end of the line.

    3. It’s pervasive. You never do anything right. You’re always screwing up. You think like Charlie Brown: “Everything I touch gets ruined!” Why even bother trying? It’s just going to be more of the same.

    Sound exaggerated? Not at all. I see freelance writers telling themselves these lies all the time. Worse, they believe them to be true. The more they think these lies and come to believe them, the more these freelance writers slowly, surely, and definitely destroy any possibility of ever reaching success. You’ll find them five years later, with the same sort of clients, the same sort of work and complaining about the same sort of things.

    It’s self-sabotage at its very best. But it doesn’t have to happen to you.

    How to choose your own story

    Think of life this way: it’s a story, and you’re the author. You’re writing your story every single moment of every single day, and the choices you make determine what happens next.

    If you face failure and then spend the rest of the workday running through all the reasons you weren’t good enough, or how this always happens to you, you’ve written a story full of drama. You become a victim of circumstances, wallowing in self-pity.

    That won’t get you anywhere — not in life, and certainly not in business. You don’t have to write that story. You can make different choices, ones that completely change what happens next. Imagine you faced the same failure, and instead of wailing “why me?” you ask yourself this instead:

    “Why not me?”

    Just imagine how your story would change then.

    You see, failure isn’t personal, or permanent, or pervasive — unless you choose to make it so. Failure is only ever temporary, and an isolated result brought about by the choices you made within the given circumstances.

    [bctt tweet=”Failure isn’t personal, permanent or pervasive, says @menwithpens“]

    It doesn’t signify the sum total of your freelancing career existence, even if you’ve failed repeatedly for the past six months.

    It does signal that next time, you should try something different. You’ll inevitably get different results.

    Even better, you can choose to view failure as feedback, like clear GPS evidence that shows you’ve made a wrong turn somewhere and need to get on a different path. It gives you an opportunity to learn something about the path you were on and the behaviors you chose, and it allows you a chance to course correct and get back on track.

    Think about Michael Jordan, a six-time NBA Champion and five-time Most Valuable Player in the world of basketball. He’s incredibly successful, and no one who thinks of failure thinks of him.

    Yet he says: “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

    Wayne Gretzky’s take on failure? “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”

    Replace failure with failing forward

    Most people see failure as a negative event versus a positive learning experience, but failure makes us better at what we do. Successful people risk failure every day, and their risks often involve very high stakes.

    But successful people risk failure because failure helps them succeed more. They’re failing just like you might be… only they’re failing forward, taking negative results and turning them into positive learning experiences.

    If you’ve been thinking of yourself as a failure for some time, or even just feeling downtrodden about failures you’ve experienced, it’s time for a change in mindset. And since you’ve likely been operating with a failure mindset for some time, adopting a new outlook will likely take some practice.

    Start here:

    1. Ask your brain better questions

    The human mind is built to answer any questions that pop into it. The answers it gives back to you depend on the quality of the questions you ask in the first place.

    Questions like “Why does this always happen to me?” or “How could I be so stupid?” send your mind racing to find reasons that explain why you’re not good enough.

    “What can I learn from this experience?” is a much better question. It sends your mind chasing after answers that become learning lessons.

    Other questions you could ask yourself include, “What can I change about my approach for next time?”, or “How can I use this situation to my best benefit?”

    I guarantee you’ll gain positive results from smart questions like these.

    2. Stop listening to people who aren’t doing any better than you

    It’s normal to share what went wrong with friends, family and people we trust. And very often, these people give us advice about what they think went wrong, and what we should do about it.

    Be careful about whose advice you take. If these people aren’t currently doing better than you and enjoying more success than you are, it’s likely their advice won’t do you much good.

    Seek out advice from people living the type of success you’d love to have — who have the sort of clients you’d like, the sort of income you want, the sort of lifestyle you dream of. They’ve been where you are — and gone far beyond it, which means their advice will likely help you move forward more than anyone else’s.

    Avoid people who continually complain or talk about what’s not going well. Instead, hang around with positive-minded people who fire you up, who motivate you. They look forward to the future, and they’ll inspire you to dream big while helping you achieve your goals.

    3. Seek to serve

    Feelings of failure often creep in when focusing on your own problems and concerns. But mentally rehashing what’s not going well often just reinforces the feelings of failure and how hard it is to succeed.

    That type of thinking keeps you firmly where you are — which is definitely not where you want to be.

    Pull your eyes away from the mirror. Look instead to the needs of others and practice finding ways to lend a hand, while encouraging those around you. Become someone people want to be around, and help them move past their own struggles.

    You’ll deepen your relationships, increase your confidence, and get your mind away from focusing on failure. You’ll also find yourself becoming more of a problem-solver, a person who can see the positive side, take action and help out. With that mindset firmly in place, you’ll soon find ways to help yourself.

    Everyone fails. It’s how you deal with it that counts.

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    You might not be succeeding right now. You might not have all the clients you want, or the type of work you want to do every day, or the sort of income you’d like to be earning.

    That’s okay. You can get to that point — if you’re ready to accept that all failures are actually learning experiences.

    Be willing to look on the bright site, learn from what went wrong and use that as feedback to change your behaviors and make better choices moving forward.

    Just imagine: you’ll have your failures to thank for your success!

    What have you learned from your failures?

  • How Your Miserable Day Job Can Help Launch Your Freelance Career

    How Your Miserable Day Job Can Help Launch Your Freelance Career

    Have you experienced this moment? It happens to nearly every independent and spirited writer stuck on the corporate ladder to make ends meet: the moment you’re sitting in your cubicle and the padded beige walls start closing in on you.

    You don’t think you can possibly muster the motivation to sit through one more pointless meeting, read one more unnecessary memo or answer one more stupid email. You feel miserable, uninspired and imprisoned.

    I’ve been there. As an aspiring freelance writer, I wanted to spend every second practicing my craft and seeing the full benefits of my talent and skills — something that was impossible for me to do while working for someone else.

    Eventually my pot of frustrations boiled over and I channeled the energy into motivation, replacing work I despised with a writing career I could love. If you’re feeling the same type of dissatisfaction at work, writing full-time is likely a career you’ve considered – but never had the motivation to start. Fortunately, your miserable job is exactly what you need to give you that final push in launching your freelance writing career.

    Turn your misery into determination

    Being miserable is a mind game. All that hashing and rehashing the things you hate about work adds up to a lot of wasted time and energy!

    Instead of dwelling on job frustrations, I used my misery as willpower to craft my writing business in the wee hours of the morning and motivate me when I encountered rejection or self doubt. My unhappiness with my job made me more determined to live life on my own terms, giving me a mission that no setback could derail.

    Stop pitying yourself and use your misery as fuel. When you catch yourself being negative about work, make a conscious decision to focus on the goals you’re working toward.

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    Use your lunch break to work through your to-do list. Put sticky notes around your desk with motivational quotes on independence, freedom and success. Stay up late to work on your goals, even when you’d rather binge-watch Netflix. Hey, Leslie Knope and Alex Vause can’t save you from desk prison — you’re going to have to save yourself.

    Use your misery to help you make sacrifices

    Writers sacrifice a lot to start their businesses, especially financially. Launch-related costs like website hosting and design can be expensive, though you’ll probably want to bootstrap your business at first. Additionally, you’ll need a sizable emergency fund to support yourself during slower periods of work.

    Use your daily misery as a reminder to stay frugal. Save every last cent you can. Remind yourself that every unnecessary dollar spent is an unnecessary moment in misery. When you feel the urge to spend money, think back to your cubicle cell and remember you’re working towards a bigger purpose: freedom.

    Stop viewing your job as a roadblock and instead recognize its purpose: funding your personal startup.

    Let your misery push you out of your comfort zone

    Networking is essential for a writer, although it can be tough when you’re stuck at a horrible job. You might doubt yourself and feel insecure about what you have to offer others.

    Yet that misery is putting you in the perfect position to take networking risks. You have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain by going outside your comfort zone.

    Join a writing group and follow your niche’s leaders on Twitter. Write thoughtful comments, tweets and emails to get noticed. Print business cards and sign up for networking mixers in your area. And when you’re feeling awkward in the corner of a social event, remember that your ticket out of misery is simply making the right connections.

    Use your misery to push you to take the first step — and then the next

    Building a sustainable writing business is tough and takes a while, especially if you want to work full time. Sure, you may not be able to quit your job tomorrow or next month — it took me six months of planning — but focus on your unwavering desire to leave your job for the opportunity to live life your own way.

    If you put in your best effort, your last day at your miserable job will come sooner than you think.

    Image: Turn your misery into motivation

    Are you stuck in a day job, but planning to go freelance?

  • Pitching a Guest Post? 7 Ways to Stand Out in an Editor’s Inbox

    Pitching a Guest Post? 7 Ways to Stand Out in an Editor’s Inbox

    Editors receive hundreds of pitches each week. When so many of them sound exactly the same, they all start to blend together in the inbox. If you’re able to capture an editor’s attention, there’s a much greater chance you will actually get an assignment. That’s where creative pitching comes in.

    Creative pitching — using unusual, imaginative ways to pitch a piece — helps your query stand out in a sea of bland guest post requests. A creative pitch can be funny, visual or collegial, depending on the target audience. By engaging editors instead of boring them to death or, worse, using gimmicks like ALL CAPS or over-the-top claims (“this will be the most-read post you’ve ever put up!”), you help ensure your pitch won’t get buried in the inbox.

    While creative pitches won’t work for every site — don’t send them to serious outlets with very strict writer guidelines — they’re a great way to help you stand out. At the very least, you’ll have fun writing them! Here are seven ideas to spice up your next pitch.

    1. Play with odd or funny subject lines

    Pique the editor’s curiosity by using something truly surprising in your subject line. I have a friend who follows up to blogs she’d like to write for with subject lines like “Earth to [Blog Name], do you read me?” These follow-up emails almost always get a response!

    It can be as outrageous as you want, within reason. Swearing or being crass may not win you any points — unless you’re pitching a blogger who’s known for that kind of voice, like Ash Ambirge at TMF Project.

    Check the contributor guidelines first, since some blogs specify that pitches should have a certain subject line.

    2. Tell a joke in your email

    Jokes are a fun way to open a pitch because they can brighten an editor’s day and break up the monotony of sorting through their email. This approach is also a great way to show you’re a real person, not a robot or spammer.

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    I am not the funniest person in the world, but I enjoy a good dad joke or funny pun. You could try starting a the joke in the subject line and finishing it in the email body — at least it might get them to open the email, right?

    3. Use an image in your pitch

    By including an image, graph or chart you plan to use in your post, the editor can get a better feel for what you’ll write. This is especially helpful if you’re promoting an infographic or have the design skills to create nice visuals to accompany your piece.

    When I recently promoted a time-sensitive infographic about distracted driving (April was Distracted Driving Awareness Month), I found that including an image drastically increased the number of responses I received.

    4. Include a TL;DR summary

    TL;DR is internet parlance for “too long; didn’t read.” Many editors lack the time to read through an entire pitch. Adding a TL;DR summary that makes your pitch in one line might elicit a smile from editors who tire of long pitches when really they just want a short summary — and earn you a response.

    5. Offer a critique

    This strategy doesn’t mean you should tell someone their blog sucks. Rather, point out something that you think is missing and offer a solution.

    For example, maybe a blog you’d love to write for has outstanding information about running and racing, but there’s no information on cross-training. Mention that in your pitch and suggest a few cross-training posts you could write.

    6. Explore your common ground

    Do a  quick “background check” on the editor you’re pitching. Did you attend the same college? Have you written for any of the same blogs? Do you share an abiding passion for pug dogs? Open your pitch with a reference to your mutual interest and you’ll stand out from others in her inbox.

    7. Reference a recent post on the blog

    Bloggers hate getting pitches that are vague and show zero knowledge of their site. Demonstrate that you understand what they’re all about by referencing a recent story and why it worked. That establishes your bona fide interest in this specific site and helps you stand out from all the mass queries.

    I like to show that I am not just throwing out a million identical pitches; I’ve actually read, liked and followed this particular blog. For extra credit, I try to comment regularly on blogs I’d like to write for, and I’ve found that editors are far more likely to reply when I’m already a familiar name on their site.

    You might not win over every editor using these tactics, but you’ll make your pitch hard to ignore. Of course, once you’ve landed the assignment, writing a great guest post is up to you.

    How have you used a creative pitch to get an editor’s attention?

  • Andrew Fitzgerald on Adventures in Twitter Fiction: TED Talks for Writers

    Andrew Fitzgerald on Adventures in Twitter Fiction: TED Talks for Writers

    Looking for some writing inspiration? One fantastic source is TED.com, home of “Ideas Worth Spreading.” This series of posts features notable TED talks related to writing, storytelling and creativity. Enjoy!

    Ready to change the way you look at Twitter?

    In this TED talk, Andrew Fitzgerald, a writer and editor who works for Twitter, explores new ways to use the platform for storytelling. Rather than thinking of the social network simply as a means of connecting with others and promoting your work, what if you were to use the medium for inspiration or even distribution?

    Fitzgerald draws parallels to the advent of serial radio shows in the 1930s, saying that “radio is a great example of how a new medium defines new formats which then define new stories.” He explains how this real-time storytelling blurs the lines between fact and fiction and provides opportunities for writers to play with different identities and anonymity while building new and creative stories.

    He references several well-known examples, including Hugh Howey’s self-published short story “Wool” that spawned a succession of sequels; Jennifer Egan’s “Black Box,” a short story tweeted line by line by The New Yorker’s fiction account; and parody stories that build on real-life events, such as the @MayorEmanuel account that documented the events of the Chicago mayoral election with a science fiction twist.

    Find the transcript and audio download on TED.com.

    What do you think of Fitzgerald’s ideas about Twitter storytelling?

  • The Write Life Turns One: Thanks for Being Part of Our First Year!

    The Write Life Turns One: Thanks for Being Part of Our First Year!

    It’s hard to believe, but The Write Life is celebrating its first birthday!

    Thank you for being part of this community of writers: for reading, subscribing, contributing, commenting and sharing. We’re glad you’ve enjoyed our posts this past year, and look forward to continuing to help you create, connect and earn.

    As we look forward to our second year, we’d love to know more about how we can help you. Would you mind sharing your thoughts in our five-minute survey?

    The survey asks questions like, What are your writing goals? What writerly challenges are you facing? What do you most need to make progress on the writer’s journey? Your feedback will guide us in providing information and content that’s most helpful for you.

     

    Thanks for supporting us through our first year, and here’s to many more!

    Cheers,

    The Write Life team